marriage trouble

[Anonymous]

I've been married for about 7-8 years. Me and my wife have been arguing all the time lately, we argue about everything. It seems nothing pleases her and everything she does irritates me. So what should we do?

Also---one of my friends...been married longer than me and thinks that there is no problem with him messing around on his wife because she has messed around first, can ya please explain to him that just isn't right? thanx

[CableMonkey]

Kill her in her sleep...make it look like an accident.

Cheating is wrong...your friend should not cheat on his wife, he should just kill her in her sleep and make it look like an accident.

[Morty]

I say you film both wives getting it on! And then play the video at the next PTA meeting at your kids school! That will teach them both.


But seriously.

Cheating is wrong no matter what. Cheating cuz the other did is a sad excuse. Cheat once, your bitch ass is on the street. No 2nd chances with me.

And as far as not getting along with the wife. Try try and try, and if you see no chance of it being bearable, time to end it. If there are kids involved, you need to decide if you can still be a good parent while living with and hating your spouse. If you can stay for the kids at least and still have a happy home for them to grow in, I'd do it for the kids. And when the kids are off or at least mature enough to handle the separation, then you split up.

But every case is different so this is a hard subject to answer to. Can only give ideas.

[Diva]

Have you tried to see a marriage counselor? A lot of the times there is an underlying problem that leads to the fighting.