Hey sister, I feel for ya, I have similar feelings pretty much everyday, only it's my kids and hubby making me feel that way!
The kids are lucky they have you honestly!! It would be a tragedy if you weren't there for them.
The next time you mom butts in after you've had a heart to heart with one of the kids I'd let her have it too! Just like you did on here, tell her if she doesn't like what you're doing to get up off her ass and do something about it and if she isn't prepared to then she needs to sit the hell down and shut the fuck up!
From the sound of it they're all incredibly blessed to have you there so don't let them treat you like you're invisible or a piece of shit because you're neither!!
And, anytime you need to talk or vent gimmie a call, I love to bitch!
